Having just watched the highlights there are a few points to make.in my opinion if the push by Luke near the end was a foul then the push on Ashley should have been a penalty.In the shoot out why did the ref not tell the Dulwich keeper to at least stay somewhere near the goal line as on both saves and in fact all the pens he was a yard off the line when the ball was struck.These are just what I noticed but I don't want it to sound like sour grapes as Dulwich shaded the game over the 120 mins.
We had a shout early on for a penalty/free kick early on. From my position I couldn't tell if it was inside or outside the box. The referee waived play on.
My impression was that from the way he controlled the game he wanted to keep play flowing, or as flowing as it could be in that hellish heat. More significantly, he wanted to avoid any controversial decisions that prompted bad feeling and niggling among the players.
Another commentator has pointed out that there was only one brief outbreak of handbags. Given the heat and the effect it might have had on tempers things might have got a lot worse.